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Self · February 06, 2025

You know that feeling when your kindness feels more like a curse than a blessing? Yeah, let's talk about that. Last week, I found myself sitting in my car, hands gripping the steering wheel, wondering for the millionth time why I couldn't just say "no" to a coworker who, once again, dumped their work on me. Sound familiar? Here's the thing about being nice – it's exhausting. Not the actual act of kindness itself, but the way some people treat it like an all-you-can-eat buffet of your time,...

Self · February 03, 2025

There's a peculiar frustration in outgrowing your old self only to p transformed, evolved, and grown - yet some people insist on seeing only the shell you left behind. Change is hard work. It's late nights wrestling with old habits, mornings facing down familiar demons, and countless moments of choosing a position to different paths than the ones you used to walk. Maybe you've transformed from being selfish to finding joy in serving others. Perhaps you've pushed past your comfort zone,...

Self · February 02, 2025

You know that moment when you're having dinner with family, and everyone's heads are bowed? No, not in prayer – they're all staring at their phones. I caught myself doing this the other day, scrolling mindlessly through Instagram while a friend of mine was telling me about a work project that was a huge deal for her. That's when it hit me: We've become willing prisoners of our own devices. Remember when leaving work meant actually leaving work? Now, our bosses casually slide into our DMs at 9...

Self · February 01, 2025

Ugh, I'm doing it again. Here I am, writing about procrastination when I should've started this blog post three days ago. But hey, at least I'm not alone – and chances are, you've been there too. Let's get real for a minute. We all know that gut-wrenching feeling of watching Netflix while our to-do list glares at us from across the room. But why do we do this to ourselves? As someone who's mastered the art of "I'll do it tomorrow," I've done some digging into this frustrating habit. First...

Self · January 29, 2025

When Grown-Ups Go Back to Kindergarten: A Guide to Adult Tantrums Let's talk about that moment when a perfectly normal adult conversation suddenly turns into a scene from a preschool playground. You know exactly what I'm talking about - when Karen from accounting hits you with a "per my last email" and suddenly you're contemplating whether to respond with a passive-aggressive gif or go full scorched-earth policy. Here's the thing: we're all walking around pretending to be mature adults who have...

Self · December 21, 2024

The holiday season can be a tough time, especially if you find yourself alone. But it doesn’t have to be a period of loneliness and longing. Here are some tips and ideas to help you not just survive, but thrive during the holidays when you’re flying solo. Create Your Own Traditions Who says holiday traditions need to be a group affair? Start your own unique rituals that bring you joy. This could be anything from watching a favorite movie, baking cookies, or taking a scenic walk. The key is...

Self · December 13, 2024

Friendship is a beautiful bond that can bring joy, support, and companionship into our lives. However, like any relationship, friendships can sometimes be affected by jealousy. Friend jealousy occurs when one friend feels envious or resentful towards another due to various reasons. In this blog, we will explore the signs of friend jealousy, its causes, and most importantly, how to effectively deal with it to maintain healthy and fulfilling friendships. Signs of Friend Jealousy Recognizing...

Self · November 09, 2024

I've been staring at this blank screen for twenty minutes, trying to find the perfect way to start this post. The irony isn't lost on me – here I am, writing about emotional instability while feeling anxious about writing about emotional instability. But maybe that's exactly where this story needs to begin: in the messy middle. Let's be real. Some days, I feel like I'm riding an emotional rollercoaster that I never stood in line for. One moment I'm soaring high with motivation and joy, and...